WHEN OUR GOALS COMPETE
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WHEN OUR GOALS COMPETE

Goals are important. They become the guideposts to our actions and behaviors. But what happens when one goal runs counter to another. We must choose what to do or how to behave.

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Avoidance
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Avoidance

If you are like me, there are times when a battle can rage inside my head. It reminds me of the song written by the Clash – Should I Stay or Should I Go – except in my case the lyrics change to Should I Act or Just Say No.

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Anchors
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Anchors

The other night I watch Rafael Nadal play. It was day-time in Australia and as the temperature soared and the sweat beads dripped off the players, I could not help but observe some of Nadal’s quirky behaviors:

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My January Word
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My January Word

The words I speak to myself matter. Consider picking one word that will guide you through the next 21 days until the end of January. This word might be something that provides inspiration or motivation. It might remind you of a key value of yours or encourage…

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Understanding Athlete Transition
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Understanding Athlete Transition

We all know that most athletes have some form of adjustments and possible struggles when they leave their sport. Change can be challenging. Change from something that has been so foundational to our existence is downright tough.

Athlete transition is complex conversation…

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Taming The Reptile Inside
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Taming The Reptile Inside

For most of us, it no longer just about survival. Instead, the tiger lurks when our self-image or our outward-facing persona is threatened. The “what if” can stop us from engaging in possibilities.

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Own Your DAY!
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Own Your DAY!

Turn off auto-pilot and get focused on the what really matters. Become aware of that. Actionize it. Acknowledge It

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The Will To Try Again
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The Will To Try Again

When you win a race, someone loses. When you scored that goal or aced a test you get noticed. That not only feels good, but it is also reinforced through comments, hugs, and rewards. There is a deeply imbedded need in our human DNA to feel included,

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Are You Ready...
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Are You Ready...

Does a thought strong enough to burst into our consciousness have meaning or is it just a random unconnected idea that a few seconds later floats away. If our brain was an Apple computer it...

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Multiply Your Wins
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Multiply Your Wins

Achievements are important. But so are other things. We need to open up our definition of what a win is. As we do this, we can start to decouple our feelings

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Moments of Grace
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Moments of Grace

We are at one level all connected. By taking a moment to notice someone else, whether it is in their joyful moments or painful experiences, whether it is acknowledging a great accomplishment or

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Getting My Story Straight
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Getting My Story Straight

If we can identify our limiting beliefs, we can ask ourselves if this belief is useful. Step 2 is about choice: ask yourself,

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Just Listen
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Just Listen

When you are faced with uncertainty or perhaps an ending of something important to you, you have emotional pain. Endings leave an indelible mark

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Remember Who You Are
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Remember Who You Are

With all things that are good, there are usually shadow consequences of that positive process. One “occupational hazard” is a scrambling together of your achievements with your sense of self.

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Positive Pressure
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Positive Pressure

The vital elements of our vision benefit from applying of positive pressure. Positive pressure is created by establishing a forced function.

A forced function is any task, activity, or event that

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Keep Your Eye On The Ball
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Keep Your Eye On The Ball

We are bombarded with information in this internet era, and it threatens our focus on pursuing excellence.

We are predisposed and encouraged to build an addiction to seeking out information. It starts first thing in the morning with the simple action of picking up our phones when the alarm goes off. And it can continue all day long through…

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